In the vast landscape of our minds, there are territories uncharted, corners shadowed by denial, and fields flourishing with stories and emotions we seldom dare to acknowledge. After the deliberate pause, the act of Stop, we embark on the following pivotal phase: Submit. This is where the obscured becomes illuminated, and what has been denied is brought into stark focus.
The transformation journey is not always about ascending to great heights; often, it’s about diving deep into the trenches of our souls. To submit means to lay oneself bare, to strip away the masks and pretenses, and to confront the raw and unfiltered truth about oneself.
Radical Honesty.
You’ve been trained, both by society and self-preservation instincts, to mask the truths that might be deemed uncomfortable. These might be truths about failures, fears, desires, or vulnerabilities. Over time, this shielding becomes so second nature that recognizing one’s genuine self becomes challenging.
In Submit, the first currency is honesty – not just honesty but radical honesty. This form of truth-telling demands courage and vulnerability. It is about revealing, recognizing, and reckoning with every facet of oneself, no matter how uncomfortable.
Unearthing the Emotions.
Human emotions are vast and varied, from the fierce blaze of anger to the gentle warmth of gratitude—all these emotions, whether dark or light, need acknowledgment in the submission process. Suppressing feelings has never been the solution. Whether it’s rage, joy, shame, or appreciation, every emotion holds a clue to understanding oneself better. By unearthing them, we’re allowing ourselves to process, understand, and ultimately use these feelings as catalysts for change.
Acknowledging the Four Truths in submission.
- Facts: What are the undeniable realities of your current situation? No exaggerations, no underplaying – just the pure, objective truth.
- Feelings: Emotions are complex and often layered. How do you truly feel about these facts? Delve deep, beyond the surface reactions.
- Focus: What has been your mindset or approach towards these facts and feelings? Have you been in denial, avoidance, or confrontation?
- Fruit: What results or outcomes have you reaped from this mindset? Moreover, what do you desire the results to be?
From Present to Potential
Submission isn’t just about acknowledging the present; it’s equally about recognizing potential. Once you have a clear, unclouded vision of where you are, the next step is to envision where you want to be. This duality – of present acknowledgment and future aspiration – is the heart of submission.
In this space of truth, as uncomfortable and confronting as it might be, lies immense power. One takes the most crucial step toward transformation by submitting to the truth within and being radically honest about one’s feelings, facts, focus, and fruit.
It’s a step away from illusion and a step closer to evolution. The act of submission is not about defeat; it’s about empowerment. You are no longer at its mercy when you submit to the truth. You become its master, ready to shape and direct it to chart the course of your destiny.
In the words of the great philosopher Friedrich Nietzsche, “The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for owning yourself.” This chapter, Submit, is your guide to owning that profound privilege.